Hi everyone, I decided to make changes in my life 1

Thank you for the information. I just have to find the right meeting & fit in terms of a sponsor. Since women can only sponsor women, this is a challenge. One I had wanted me to attend every activity that she and her group attended. I'm a musician so places that I gig at have alcohol. It's all around, and not going because alcohol is there makes no sense to me. I made my decision to not indulge in Alcohol. Music is part of me. Thanks for your support and advise.

I found some CBD non alcoholic drinks at a local restaurant that features music in the summer so restaurants and bars are becoming more aware!

Hi Nicole, you may want to look at SMART recovery as well. https://www.smartrecovery.org/ It's based on CBT and had online meetings and probably increasing number of in person meetings as well.

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Sounds good. I miss singing & playing.

Hi Leslie,
Thank you very much.

Please tell me how you got this far

I am totally AA but I know many who use SMART Recovery.

Hello Nickky your message resonated with me. I am not a scholar or a young man. But feel the need to reach out to you.
I believe that we may be able to help each other on this spiritual journey so we may ascend upward to a higher level of consciousness.
Thank You for positive reinforcement through your words.

Sure Gary,
Reach out whenever you like too.

Dating is tough in sobriety. As I continue to work on me Iā€™m finding out who I am and what I really want. In the beginning I just wanted to fill that empty void of my disease ā€œlonelinessā€. Today Iā€™m learning about Godā€™s word. A relationship with others is important but will be greatly improved when I work on me first. I must heal to a point where I can bring something to the relationship and not my baggage. Most of our struggles are from fear. Just like what todayā€™s challenge is about ā€œFearā€.
Working the steps of AA are giving me freedom from my past wreckage. Patience is another beautiful thing to learn in sobriety. Iā€™m a more and now person. Well I was before. Today Iā€™m much more calm. Meditation has helped center me.
Keep up the good work! 1000 plus days is awesome. Get that sponsor, work the steps and then work with others. Itā€™s a beautiful program.

There are many supportive po people. You inspired us and you are on correct path of soberity.

I am 100 days sober and I feel very good about that.

You will feel much better as time passes. Feel free to call and text before you decide to take first drink.

Hi Dana, I feel your frustration. I have also been on the dating sites. Everyone wants a woman to sit and drink with. Then when I mention my faith is an important part of my life, FORGET ABOUT IT! It is so frustrating. I am wondering if I am just destined to spend my life single. Smh
Have you found another way?