Just Lonely

Struggling Help
#22

Hi Amy! I’m pretty new to recovery life and I’m a social person. I’ve been wanting to meet new sober people in Colorado or healthier friends. I went to a sober skate event on Sunday and it was a lot of fun. It’s intimidating to randomly find and go to these events but, everyone is super kind and likely feel or have felt that way. Reach out if you want to go to a meetup or something! Hang in there gf!

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#23

I’m always happy to have someone reach out! I don’t have really any friends anymore so it would be really nice to have a sober friend to hear from :blush: if you ever want to chat !

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#24

I'm sorry that you're feeling lonely. Know that in this program you don't need to be lonely. There are always plenty of people to talk to. You can always send me a message or if I don't respond you can certainly call me 612-235-1819 anytime day or night my name is Jim

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#25

I know the loneliness! But this program is changing my life! There is hope😊

#26

Meeeee

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#27

@amy180733 ... Friends or predators?

#28

Only person I’ve ever seen on here near me! Boston baby!

#29

I feel like that all the time prob cuz hard to talk about :poop: that makes us unique or why do we drink cuz we r insecure or anxious too…? I’m here to talk I’ll tell u all my demons haha

#30

Are you in Brownsville tx ?

#31

Amy you're welcome to reach out to me. 5409348665

#32

I am here too🫂 54 years young. 36 Days AF. Lonely, that was me, sometimes still is. I will not drink over it,, it blacks me out, not today. You did the. Right thing by reaching out

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#33

I have been sober now for three years after a 23 yr long marriage where drinking was my escape from the verbal emotional and physical abuse I endured I have now finally got my own place and have lived alone for almost a year and it's the best thing that has happened to me I'm so much happier and no stress no drama. But loneliness hits a lot I am a hermit with no one to talk to other then when I am at work. So I dive into video games and movies to.keep my mind busy. Keep ur chin up and am here if u need to talk

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#34

Samesies lol I feel like if I talk to people all I am doing is trauma dumping on them so I keep it to myself that's why I found this app to find people to talk to who has the same traumas as I do

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#35

I’m in the same boat most days. Not many to talk to in person and not being allowed to see my kids. Always here if anyone wants to chat too, and NOT a bot lol

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#36

Same

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#37

Where did you find a sober skate or any sober events in Colorado?

#38

Absolutely Amy,when your friends are not around anymore they never were,but thankfully on here most of us are stand up people...ii said most

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#39

Hope your good girl, I no the lonely feeling... Smile your beautiful..

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#40

I’m going through the beginning of Sobriety again, somehow lost along the way. I was in a relationship for 8 years been 2 years ago and now no one around. So going through depression a started again. Tired of feeling like Crud everyday. (Sucks) So here I go again would love new friends I’m from Okc Okay

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#41

I really can relate. I’m starting all over after a year. Hard when your alone

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