Hey Aimee- per the comments above and @soberinsoflo125132 , in traditional 12 step programs it is recommended to share in a general way to the group and then a trusted advisor, also known as a sponsor where you can share everything.
It’s very important that you get what’s inside out otherwise it boils up inside us like a poison.
Thanks so much for this post. It was very important to ask that as countless others have the same question 
Just don't share your s**ual stuff in meetings Aimee. Share that one on one with your sober support or sponsor. That's what your 4th step is for. I say this for many reasons. I have 29years experience in AA.
There are usually women in my groups but one of my meeting today I was the only woman...they tried to volunteer me to share first since I’m a lady
I keep my shares to what I’m feeling now in sobriety. No drunkalogs or past re hashing