Hey Y’all! So, I’m taking my 1st weekend trip mini vacation. Leaving tomorrow thru Sunday. I wasn’t worried at all really until this morning. Is this a normal healthy fear or a sign that maybe I should change plans.
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Just make sure you have plenty of sober activities to do. Museums etc, whatever you like. Be good to yourself. Be prepared. Get a meeting schedule for the area you're gonna be in ahead of time, just in case you need some grounding. You can do this.
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Thanks. Yep, got sober activities planned! Am going to Vegas for a day that’s were my concern creeps in at. I will be fine got my meeting app in my pocket too! 
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A little cliche but just remember to enjoy yourself.
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I remember my first sober vacation. It can feel a little nerve wracking. One of my biggest fears was the fact that I didn't trust myself. I also dreaded the conversation I would have with other folks on vacation. As to why I quit drinking. The only thing I can tell you is to be true to yourself. Remember why you got sober in the first place, and enjoy your vacation. I look back on some vacations where all I did everyday was get trashed. I literally have little to no memories of those trips. This last year sober has been amazing.
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Yeah I can understand that. Don't trip on it, do some people watching, realize you don't have to be a drunken fool like the rest of them, no regrets.
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Great responses guys! Vacation has been my downfall in my sobriety journey. I thought I was ok cuz I would stop drinking the last day...needless to say that wasn't sustainable . I love the "people watching " suggestion! And remember why you stopped in the 1st place. You got it!! Stay true to you:muscle:
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I always made sure to have good candy and things readily available for me too. Sounds like you are doing a good job being prepared. Make sure and enjoy!!
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Thank you all so so much! I love the support and feedback! I love this new life too much! I’m gonna do all the things, enjoy myself all while sober! 
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Normal
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You got this!
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I went to a concert in Austin and it was the first time I have ever been sober at such an event. I stressed for nothing. However, it’s good you aren’t being cavalier about it. I agree with the others; sober activities and sober companions. I think a meeting in Vegas would be cool!! Go ahead and roll the dice! You should be fine if you value your accomplishments. Good luck and bring back money :))
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It's normal. make sure you have plans to reach out to family, friends and the fellowship.
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Think about the PRIDE you will feel when it’s done!!! In the last 6 mo I had to travel for work and a family event…I made it through and even had fun!!! I can’t tell you the confidence and pride I feel now. I absolutely wish that for you! It gets better every day…you got this ! Totally normally and good for you for jumping on the app!!
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Going to Vegas and surrounding area, there are many great sober activities. Hiking, shopping, just walking around taking pictures,etc. All kinds. You have made it this far because of your desire and resolve to stay sober. Good on you!
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I went to Maine for a weekend for a wedding a few weeks ago. I know its not a good idea in early sobriety, but I introduced the bridge and groom so had to go.
I prayed and meditated on it before going. Met the wedding party at a bar the night before and had a blast drinking seltzers with lime. Went to a meeting the next morning and did some walking around (beautiful sites) before the wedding. Open bar, but no worries. I felt great being completely in the moment with old friends, giving and receiving all of the hugs and not thinking about drinking at all, though drinks were all over as far as the eye could see in every direction.
I felt so good afterwards and had a heck of a good time in the moment.
Keep the faith and really enjoy yourself. Feel great and relieved when its over, but be in the moment and love every second of it.
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Nice! Yeah once I landed in Phoenix yesterday I was so excited to be able to experience this all sober! I do plan to go to a meeting in Vegas later today and looking forward to it! Love that I don’t have to do this alone 🫶🏽 Thank you!
Thank you! I’m excited for the experience now! 
Glad you had a great time! We are can anywhere as long as we are spiritually fit is truth huh. I will be sure to stay connected and remain in the moment
Had a great time and stayed sober yall! Thanks so much for taking the time to help me thru my fear of my 1st sober trip 🫶🏽