57 days sober. I always had hope me and my ex boyfriend would get back together. Just a little while ago he called intoxicated telling me he already slept with a few women. It makes me mad cause how can you love someone you been with for for years and only been apart for 67 days and just go sleep with random women? I'm mad, upset, emotional. Thinking I could really go for a drink right now.
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Don’t drink at anyone. For years, every fight with my ex meant drinks. Stay strong and move on
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Human beings can be such selfish creatures! There’s nothing more painful than investing everything you’ve got into someone only to have them give themselves to others so freely. I experienced this with someone I had given my all to for almost twenty years. Never have I felt such pain. But sobriety has taught me so much!! Today I have an idea of who I really am. And in turn one day I’ll have the opportunity to actually get to know another. For reals!!!!!! The road to true happiness is often paved with pain. Stay the course. Focus on yourself. And the real world will open itself to you!!!!!!
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Ohh 
! You have to stay strong and move on. I know there’s a special person out there for you
Well said Eric!!
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Remember why you got sober? Keep that in your mind and don't let it be about someone else. You're worth something in this world. Focus on you and let him go! 57 days is a huge deal, keep going🤗
Exactly
That’s not love unfortunately. And unfortunately people mistake companionship and attachment for love far too often these days! People are more confused about the emotions they feel because they never truly learn how to properly understand them, let alone how to properly process them.
Don’t give into your emotions by reacting hastily,… process your emotions through thought, meditation and definitely find someone/people you can verbally communicate with and handle your emotions in a much more positive and healthier manner.
Keep on living sober by staying sober while acting sober, meaning don’t fall into any addictive habits or behaviors.
You got this and can do it!
For me when I got sober for other people I always relapsed.
He may also be lying just to hurt you 
. But that's immaterial regardless. The focus should be on you and your sobriety. If you aren't solid as an individual, another codependent relationship is likely. Take this as an opportunity to sever ties with what sounds like a terrible influence and do what is best for you. Good luck