Woo hoo! 90 days is a wonderful accomplishment. Make sure you do something for self care today, maybe a mani/pedi or a special ice cream treat. Celebrate the day sober!
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It is a great milestone. and all we have is one day at a time. keep at it.
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Barbie Bishop, awesome on the 90 days!
Isolated, lonely and bored is not good. Have you been attending in person AA/NA/CA meetings? I learned that I had to get really involved in the sober community and stay busy in sobriety.
Working out, hiking, hobbies or whatever distractions were a bandaid on bullet wound. I needed real solutions in my recovery.
17 years clean and happy 
I’m here if you want to talk or have any questions
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That's so sweet thank you. It's great how excited you are about it!
That's fantastic. I'm around 75 days this time. It's great we are doing it.
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Congratulations you should celebrate your hard work.\nIt's okay to be bored better than being drugged out
Ken here. Went on my first commitment to a rehab on my 100th day. I was terrified lay in bed three days wondering what to say. Told my story to about 40 people then promptly went to flirt with the lady taking notes. I said I think it went well”, she said “ That’s your ego “ Incredible learning experience. 
That’s fantastic! It gets better.
Thank you, that's a great story!
You're right, it's not a big problem. But it's something I struggle with, not knowing what to do with myself.
Barbie my name is Olen Murphy I'm from Houston Texas originally from Crosby TX....you look so familiar. Do you know me?
Hey beautiful 
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Boredom is good, much better then the anxiety and insanity of booze and drugs. Try to stay busy and exercise as much as possible.
@barbie463356 
CONGRATULATIONS on your 124 days of sobriety.
As for the other stuff concentrate on yourself for the next 8 months. Stay out of "relationships", don't 13th step anyone or be 13th stepped by anyone. Stay away from your old crowd. Over the course of time you will develop your own tribe.
I share this with you coming from 37 years of sobriety.
You can do this my friend.
Keep going you got this
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The first year was very lonely for me. Figuring out who I wanted to still hang out with and what I still wanted to do and who I actually was. It’s get easier and you will find your sober people. Hang in there!
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Congratulations I know the struggle and I'm 6 years sober and I isolated myself from other because I'd rather be happy with myself and be lonely instead of be around others where I feel uncomfortable and unwanted but remember your never alone truly and you got this and it your time for yourself and all your healing and growing and knowing who you truly are.
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