97 days today and feeling really down.
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Why are u feeling down my dude ?
Thanks for connecting. Idk just alone. I’ve been working so hard but BS just keeps happening to me
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Don't really know the situation but I do know that being sober is probably the best and any of that BS is just supplemental human afterthought
Thanks, you’re right. I have just worked really hard and finally got my home back Monday. Then my bf stole my car, lost our money at the casino, and got the car towed. Over $400 later I got my car back but now I can’t afford my mortgage again. I know it’s just money, but I worked so hard to save that money. I used to feel that my relationship was trusting and now I don’t. I’m turning 30 in a week and I feel like it’s just too late for me to look for love. I don’t know. Ready to give up on ever being happy
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Would u like to pm me ?
I’m not really sure how to navigate this topic.
• 97 days is spectacular.
• You can’t control other people but you can control how you respond to their behavior.
• Money and age are numbers that feel excruciatingly important in stressful moments but that fades with the ebb and flow of life.
• Today is the only day you can do anything about. Make good decisions in the moment and deal with tomorrow when it gets here.
• Spend today working on yourself. You’re worth it. By loving yourself you’ll be able to teach other people how to treat you.
• By loving yourself you’ll find the courage to set boundaries and distance yourself from people, places and things that work against your serenity.
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Thank you 
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I am sorry you are going through that, don't let others rain on your parade. You are doing amazing at 97 days and should be proud of yourself! If it means anything, I am proud of you. Sounds like it is time to part ways with those around you that are causing you unhappiness.
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Hey! What seems to be the down in the dumps? Past issues? I’m here if you need someone to talk to
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That would happen sober or straight. Better to feel and deal straight
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Sorry that you are going through it. Sounds so tough, but it sounds like you are doing the right things. Next thing would be dropping the things that hold you back. Love and connection is important but you have a say in who you let in your life. 30 is still so young. I'm starting again at 46 and am scared too. But I have to move on with or without. Best of luck.
Very sound advice.
Everyday you go to bed sober- YOU ARE A WINNER. I know life can be rough at times- but you have everything you need to make it- you got this!
Lifting you up, Claire 
Hang in there hunny! Congrats on your 97 days!
Congrats on the 97 days. Finances like anything else take a while to bounce back as well. Just stay patient. Take care of what you can take care of now.
Are you depressed? I take medicine for that that helps. Have a higher power? I am learning to lean on hp the way I did alcohol. I’m 58 single and not worried about it. Sounds like it time to
Loose the bf. Messing you up financially is an automatic dealbreaker for me.