A big struggle for me is learning how to be a good friend again. I cut everyone out. Now I'm stuck with this person that I don't like to hangout with (myself). I have to learn to love myself before anyone else can. Working on that everyday.
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Yes! See the good in yourself! It’s there, just gotta see it! You got this!
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Amends comes later. There is a reason it is step 9… just keep doing the next right thing. And it will work it’s self out.
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That’s a hard one for me too
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Oh, man, do I feel this one. I haven’t made any friends in sobriety. It’s a big party of me, myself, and I! I hang out with my parents a lot. How cool, right? 33 year old dude making dinner for his folks. What a life. Hey, I’m sober tho!
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I hang out with my parents too. At least I know I'll be sober there. Hey no shame in the game.
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Find a group for you…. Not your parents
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It takes time but you got this. I used to feel the same. Now I invite myself to a hike , walk in the beach, and Traveling and other activities..I miss No one but I missed the real me before I became an alcoholic. If it makes sense.