For the past year and a half I have been in treatment, my son was take from me by ACS. His aunt and her wife took him in. The goal was for me to regain custody after completing treatment. However, my son decided he wanted to stay with his aunt and her wife. I’m hurting terribly since he made up his mind but I understand and respect his choice. I’m just in allot of pain. Does anyone have any advice for ways to cope?
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I don’t know if my reply is going to take away the hurt, but it may help you a positive angle on the situation. First, what a blessing that you have taken the time to help yourself. Next, what a wonderful blessing to have an aunt who was both willing and able to care for your son. Lastly, how wonderful that your son is doing well with your Aunt. He must feel stable and secure if he wants to stay. A year and a half ago things were really bad for both you and him. Now you are both doing better. Give time more time. Keep pushing forward. Good things are happening
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It might take time for your son to come around. Let him see you strong & stable! Great job on helping yourself 
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Thank you so much, your reply it made me feel so much better
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It’s just a matter of looking at it from another perspective. We addicts are wired to obsess and overthink all the negatives of a situation. Today we have a choice to practice re-wiring our thoughts in a healthier way. The truth is you are not that person anymore. We have changed. We may be far from perfect, but we are also far from that old active addict we once were. Let go of that old you, and create a new life with more positive thoughts. You’re doing just fine. Feel the blessings and be patient
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Thank you so much For your support, your advice made me feel so much better