A friend of mine just lost her father in an apartment fire. Sobre over 15 years and she just posted that news. In tvat pisting she stated she wsnts to get a drink. WhT do i say to her after condolence,prayers and grief.
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Ugh so sorry for you and her! Just tell her to play it out in her head, alcohol will only make the situation worse. And not to isolate but she's probably depressed so that doesn't help a ton
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Thanks! Space will be respected for her!
Exactly. If she has decided to drink then that's it. Nothing can be said. Just support and move forward
Ask her what she needs. Take her for coffee. Listen. Go to a meeting. Do zoom meetings with her. She needs to stay busy til at least after the funeral. Be her distraction. She needs people.