Ok so new person in my life turns out lots younger than I first thought. But the connection is awesome n deep n beautiful! We agree we ate both very blessed with this amazing friendship! I had to surrender my loneliness, tendency to fantasize, and be fully present without wearing any masks. Forgive myself for wanting more etc.
Been working hard on it n got it mostly right sized
lol! Im only human!
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We are very blessed not ate lol. Applying lots of tools to the situation n now being able to talk about that with him made it sweet n real n not awkward. Yes, I wanted more at first, but what we have is so healing n honest n mutually supportive, I’m just crazy grateful for this beautiful gift of Sobriety. Have a beautiful 24 Sober Family. Don’t pick up! Much Love! Sky​:butterfly:
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It is a gift for sure. Freely given. I’m continually blown away by A.A. and this way of life.
As for your friend, I only know from experience that if I am living the steps a letting go it always works out fine. Better than fine. As long as I trust the process. Besides half the time I don’t know what I want or what’s good for me 
Thank you for sharing. I needed to hear this and practice it myself.
Thanks Matt for th response. He lost his mom to addiction a year ago n I lost my hubby in Recovery 3 years ago n it feels like our Higher Power said here, support eCh other on your Sober journey n value it, respect it n be grateful for such a sweet pure gift! Humbled n awed! Sky​:fire:❤‍🔥🪶🪶:hibiscus:
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It looks like you’ve got a lot of acceptance and freedom. I’m proud of you.
Sounds like that could be the “intuitive thought” rolling with it makes sense.
Every day Matt, that I gently redirect those human thoughts that pop up ( oh he’s so beautiful, etc) I remind myself how precious it is one day at a time to live in clean, healthy boundaries that value other things than the physical. Grateful for tools to manage it!
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That’s awesome.
I’m working on that myself. I keep going back to the bottom of page 86 and top of 87. “Gradually Becomes a working part of the mind”
Wow yeH! Making the new grooves n neural pathways. Practice makes perfect well ok not perfection. But healthy progress. Keep making that next best decision! Hav a great 24. I’m gonna scoop one up too! Peace! Sky B​:rainbow:🦬:pray:t4:
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Good job for recognizing!
Thx Tim! Lov this platform!!