Struggling here. Girlfriend of 5 years ended things. Been sober 3 months now but this despair is overwhelming. Starting life over and staying sober seems so much to deal with. Any advice?
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Anthony, sorry things aren’t working out w your lady. It sucks! I went through divorce at 6 months sober. Plus my business was failing and it was overwhelming to say the least.
I’ll tell you that it’s all going to pass! And in my experience I came to believe it was all a BLESSING! I stayed sober and got deep into my step work and became a much better version of myself. After 14+ years of solid sobriety. There have been many beautiful ladies that I loved and share wonderful experiences with. My business has changed and had its ups and downs, but I’m finally doing what I love and I’m happy.
If you ever want to talk, I’m here.
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Thank you Danny.
Hey man, get your a$$ to as many AA meetings as you can in your free time. Just take up free space with those meetings.
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I ended a relationship last summer and it almost made me relapse. Staying busy really helps. I found some local groups I could go to, joined a church and hit the gym. Staying busy every week was key to staying sober and getting over some of the grief.
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Matt and Jordan took the words right out of my mouth! Been there! So much happier and successful now!!! Don’t look back!!!
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Thanks guys. I hit up a new meeting and made some friends, already feel a little better
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Are you working with a sponsor? I sponsor if ur interested.
Dont at the moment but i met someone yesterday that i vibed with. And he is open to it too. I really appreciate it Danny.
Awesome 
and you’re welcome! I’m here. Thanks Andrew