Any lil ladies with a year or more of sobriety

Recovery
#1

Any lil ladies with a year or more of sobriety looking to date?

Indy Sage on FB

@RaSentinel on IG

#2

You should've stopped at your last post, 3 years ago. The Ralph Waldo Emerson quote was a strong finish. Ending your hiatus with a dooshy fishing expedition post is hardly a triumphant return.

Come on man, do better.

#3

As much as I am glad that a quote made someone feel good, sobriety dating is challenging enough without unsubstantiated judgments on me dealing with meeting my primary needs to cultivate a wholesome family life for myself as a reward for my discipline & sacrifices with sobriety & self mastery.

Thank you for helping me build resilience today & I hope you can focus less on judging or giving your power away attempting to control other people.

Building self mastery can only come when we take responsibility for our own errs & allow others to live the way they see fit.

#4

Blah blah blah blah blah. Bit dramatic, init? Does that word salad up there make you feel better? "Self mastery, build resilience," etc etc?

Trying to control you? Nah, I'm simply saying you've been "gone" for 3 years, youve posted twice (this being the second one) maybe hang out for a bit and let people get to know you, and maybe you'll find a "date" organically.

Also, this isn't even the dating side of this app, so there's that. Busting into a sober room looking for a date is super douchey and straight up tacky.

#5

You okay? Let the man live.

#6

When I met my ex the dating & community were set up differently.

Now that I am single again, I came back & could not find dating, so I made this lovely post, which you feel like you can ridicule based on your apparent need to criticize, judge & mock other people who don’t operate the way you want them to.

I pity you for your mistaken need to tell other people what to do, when they are not seeking your feedback or advice.

I hope you can learn to focus on dealing with your own issues & stop distracting yourself with a futile attempt to rant on about drama & blah blah for whatever reason.

#7

Hahaha yeah man, I'm okay.

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#8

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#9

You should have stopped when you went to try to tell other people what to do instead if working on yourself.

When something another person does bothers a person that person is obfuscating their own shortcomings for someone who reminds that person of themselves.

So you might want to ask yourself, did you shame yourself for dating someone in sobriety or do you carry envy for those who do?

#10

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