Anybody looking for a fun chick to hang with? I have over years sobriety & moved to Apex NC in late July!!
I already have a wonderful group of AAs that I hang will but looking for more all the time…
Of course I am looking for my special partner in crime…
:fire:
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I’ve fished the finger lakes before. Beautiful country. How long have you been sober?
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Scammer? What does that mean? Do you think I am trying to pull one over on you?? I am not that chick!
Sober 6/01/14, over 7 years!!
Scammer!! That is bogus… I am looking for love, I am not good enough for the slobs on Eharmony and it seems I am too good for the jokers on this site?? Where does a person find a partner today in a world so full of skepticism?? I feel hopeless about the pursuit and I have only been looking for 5 months… please don’t discourage me, I hate this already.
Karen never give up on your pursuit of love. To me that is what really makes the world we live in worth it all. I am also a skeptic at heart so i always go straight to the too good to be true. Dont take it personal. Hope you find what you are looking for
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Cool our sober date is close to each other. Mine is March 2014
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Just my opinion, I wouldn’t be searching for love with another addict. I’m an alcoholic, sober for a little over 15 months. I’m blessed that my wife isn’t an alcoholic or an addict. She has helped me and encouraged me to get sober.
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My bad. It’s all good. And congrats on that clean time. Just making sure you wasn’t. Good luck on your search. Sure you can find someone of good standing here. Don’t let my stupidity interfere with your venture. This is the right place for you to find another. Good luck.
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Oh Jason… I am on the same page!! This is actually my second shot. Eharmony was the first and I felt I was not enjoying the feel. Actually I did date somebody in sobriety & the program and it was sort of a loss; I did very much so I guess it wasn’t a loss and we didn’t care for each other a lot and teach each other much!! But unsolicited advice is never appreciated so I will learn what I learned on my own… 

Thanks girl! I am learning as I go!! 
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You see, that’s not how a community works. We will always strive to help our brothers and sisters. I feel it’s my responsibility to reach out and help a sister with advice before she gets burned.
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With that being said, if you were in Ohio, I would love to have a coffee with you.
Well… I am quite independent and strong willed, determined when I set my mind to something. I have traveled many paths tried a few things here and there…
Thanks all for the advice but I believe God is in charge today and will lead me to where I need to be! 
Right on… I can be skeptical as well especially with all that I have done and seen in my past. I get it; we do tend to protect ourselves especially on the internet to the new and particularly suspicious! Good on ya for not being naive!!
Well, you just sounded to good to be real is all. Lol. Good for you. Hope you find that knight in shining armor. 
Just be careful.
Karen would just like to say it seems when I’ve looked for a relationship I settle for someone not good for me. Don’t settle life is to short. A good man will come along. Your an attractive lady. It was a failed relationship that got me clean and sober. I’ve had a couple screwed up ones since. I got really used to being single and enjoy it. I think I’m ready now. But I have to remember I’m not gonna settle . It’s in Gods hands and if it’s meant to be it will happen. Good luck with your journey
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Thanks Steve! Though I am ready, I am in no big rush. I realize that is when I make poor choices in love. My focus is me, sobriety and my new gig as a phlebotomist. I always need to maintain my relationship with God and work my steps, as soon as my program slips & my connection with God I become disconnected and life becomes unmanageable again. I try to keep my priorities straight!! Thanks, good looking out…
Wish we where closer to each other. Age and distance. Friends always
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