anyone need a sb? Because I definitely do. It’s a little hard.
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Sb? What's an sb and why is this so so hard?
A sober buddy I meant to say
Ohhhhhhhh hahaha
I certainly went through and still do at somes, periods where I become a s.l.u.t.
I'm not perfect and don't pretend to be. I didn't get sober to become a monk, and my s.e.x. life and drinking/drugging were so intertwined, it was impossible to tell where one started and the other began.
What was awesome, is I simply followed the same solution that I did for not drinking. I WAS HONEST IN ALL OF MY AFFAIRS. BRUTALLY HONEST.
So on a dating site, my profile read "100% sober. No Drugs, No Booze. I don't want to be your boyfriend or soulmate. I'm here to get laid."
No lying, no manipulation. No pretending to be something I'm not.
I went to bed with a clear conscience, and didn't feel guilty in the morning.
For me, that is what sobriety is all about.
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That’s pretty awesome and commendable of you.
I was told that if I don't change my behaviors, and remain the same - that same man will drink again. He will have no choice, because he will return to the only thing he knows.
That is very true. Thank you for that John.
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You're welcome. I never burned my life to the ground because I was having too much s.e.x. I burned it to the ground because I couldn't stop drinking. So IMO - ANYTHING that keeps me from that first drink is ok for my sobriety.