I lost my man, after he finding out he went on a date with your best friend you work with at the same company. You went for a coffee ag the roadside and foondout both of them are on a date having lunch… what are you gonna do in my position here….
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Leave him and move on..
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Thanks for your opinion…
Well this not a place to talk about you losing your man it’s for sobriety so really no one cares about your love life move on
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Be honest with yourself 
can you ever really trust him again or do you need to let him go and start fighting for you own peace of mind
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Just ignore the comment about not talking about your "love life" A situation like that CAN affect your sobriety efforts, which makes that a good topic to request help and thoughts from others to help you avoid relapse. Move on as quickly as possible from him, a stressor like that can and eventually will affect your sobriety.
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Worst thing is to ignore and let it fester. Be honest with yourself, be honest with both of them, and get to your sponsor or someone your accountable to. Just don't dwell that will eat you up and spit you out
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I disagree this is a traumatic experience that could lead to relapse.... I appreciate her reaching out... I would suggest going to meetings set boundaries and leave him you're worth more than that
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Real life stuff Life On Life's terms Gary C
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Yes reaching out on this platform
Yes boundaries
Yes know your worth
Yes go to meetings for support
Yes to open communication with your partner
No to settling
No to letting it slide
Yes to adding me as a friend lol.
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I know went through it but I just don’t post about it yeah I lost everything but I’m sober now moving on !!
Move over he know good then sobeiety more important then that