3 years and 10 months. I am going through a hellish time right now. I felt better at 1 year but maybe this is just part of the road to recovery. I truly wish I had a better relationship with my family members. They say "wait until the miracle happens" so i am being as patient as possible.
I can so relate to your post I have 4 and 1/2 years which, I am thrilled about, but because I haven’t seen my family most of that time because of the amount of alcohol, I am lately feeling very lonely. All holidays it’s only my husband and I, my daughter is always with her hubby’s family and my brothers stopped inviting us, which is ok, because I am still afraid to be around all that booze. But it seems like I made my circle so small, most of my recovery friends are from zoom meetings, so always alone. My husband is awesome but let’s get seriously there is only so much to talk about and he isn’t in recovery. I am so grateful for all the people here that have helped me through so real hard times. Any women here from RI please let me know. We all got this. 
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I made 54 months today. I love life a god. Thank you for your service and support to help me grow my life long lasting