As a person who is really serious about quitting this cocaine habit, but keeps getting pulled back into it, and have a partner who isn't supportive in the way I need them to be.
If I've begged and voiced my needs to him, and I do not see any effort into working on it - would you leave? We have an amazing relationship, and was sure he's the one for me - he gets me in ways I never thought anyone would - he accepts me, stands beside me, and (for the most part) helps me grow.
It just comes down to communication. I am an over thinker and a person who needs to talk about what I'm thinking or else it will bounce around in my head, with no end.
Where, he, shuts down whenever we talk and always says "he can't get his thoughts out to words" and shuts down.
Now, I totally understand the behaviour, so I mentioned different methods of communication. If he feels better to sit with it, write it out in a letter or text so he can really think about his words, I was totally fine with that. Since the act of "being confrontational, and emotional" while sharing his feelings makes him the most uncomfortable, then at least he is on his own terms for a part of this event. I just wanted to see some sort of effort made.
Sorry for the long rant, but alas, I needed to get it out of my mind. Thank you for being an ear (set of eyes)
- Shelton