I work in healthcare an i make ok money for me an my two kids right. But my dad had cancer an has surgery to get the cancwr out i paid for the whole trip for me an my two kids plus my mom cause SHE quite her job A WEEK BEFORE the surgery. We had to stay a week cause he had complications witch i thank god every day for keeping him alive. I pay my rent, my house bills, food for my kids an their birthday an to go back to school. In between all that i had to get a part time second job cause right now i cant even afford fas for my car. Im tired im drained literally an all my mom can do is can i get can i get can i get we need we need we need like NO stop i have absolutely nothing in my house to eat or even to wipe my own tooshy. Setting up boundaries with her an my kids is like i just killed them. Like give me a dang brake before my anger comes back an i snap an its not gonna be pretty u know. Like im really thinking about moving state or to a different town just so no one can suck the money dry. Oh an when i ask for $20 to put in my gas tank so we dont walk till i get paid she hands me a $5 bill. I need peace an i need a dame brake.
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Been in that spot where it felt like setting boundaries made me the villain. Protecting your peace is sometimes the only way.
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Oh my god yes like I’m the bad guy in this situation like nooo I’m just ready to spend money on my house and my kids.
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You got this. It’s time to live free, sober and happy.
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Hang in there, it's going to get better
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I really hope so cause me working two job don’t even feel like enough