I work in healthcare an i make ok money for me an my two kids right. But my dad had cancer an has surgery to get the cancwr out i paid for the whole trip for me an my two kids plus my mom cause SHE quite her job A WEEK BEFORE the surgery. We had to stay a week cause he had complications witch i thank god every day for keeping him alive. I pay my rent, my house bills, food for my kids an their birthday an to go back to school. In between all that i had to get a part time second job cause right now i cant even afford fas for my car. Im tired im drained literally an all my mom can do is can i get can i get can i get we need we need we need like NO stop i have absolutely nothing in my house to eat or even to wipe my own tooshy. Setting up boundaries with her an my kids is like i just killed them. Like give me a dang brake before my anger comes back an i snap an its not gonna be pretty u know. Like im really thinking about moving state or to a different town just so no one can suck the money dry. Oh an when i ask for $20 to put in my gas tank so we dont walk till i get paid she hands me a $5 bill. I need peace an i need a dame brake.
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Been in that spot where it felt like setting boundaries made me the villain. Protecting your peace is sometimes the only way.
Oh my god yes like I’m the bad guy in this situation like nooo I’m just ready to spend money on my house and my kids.