OK this is too long for Facebook but I feel this is the form that I could get better help with.
Long story short, I’m a butcher at a small town farmers market. This new vendor opens up a stand, selling his goods in weirs. It’s a very small town we’re both gay and we can both tell that we like each other. I am throwing a barbecue to celebrate my six months of sobriety and ever in the farmers market is coming so I noticed that this crash hadn’t been going to his stall recently and I asked the woman that runs the whole farmers market. Where is Henry? I have an invitation for my barbecue
Just trying to be cute because I don’t want it to seem like I’m trying to ask her this about this man and I wanna ask on a
date, Mimi, Mimi, Mimi, Mimi girls stuff.
I have to remember she’s ignoring me because she said oh I didn’t invite him and I kept you to separate because he’s an alcoholic.  To my knowledge I didn’t know and I asked, does he go to any meetings or does he go anywhere for it and she says no I didn’t think it would be good for you to know him because he got called by the police for being drunk in his yard and had to go to the hospital for detox and I didn’t think you should be around that.
 HEY Karen! I was that six months ago don’t tell me Eric try to protect me. I know she had a good intentions but she’s not trash. She just needs help. I wasn’t trash and I needed help. I don’t like that. I don’t like the whole well I am watching it for your own sobriety. Well, I could’ve been like hi oh no, no no I can’t deal with being a sponsor to someone that I’m trying to date or I don’t want to be around alcohol I can handle that don’t tell me what I need.
Has anyone felt that way like your trash or your broken because they’re an alcoholic? I feel like I just needed to get fixed or sort stuff out I’m not broken I’m not dirty I hate when people think alcoholics her dirty we’re not we’ve lived something happened and we’re working on it .