Struggling with being on my own
Used to being codependant on substances or people
Thanks for listening
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You don’t need other people or substances. Those substances and most of those people didn’t love you. You can just reach out here and this is a loving group. I love you if I didn’t I would not be replying to this. I just would’ve passed on and done nothing but I care about you and I care about your sobriety because I wouldn’t wish this disease on my worst enemy And I just finished August 8 was my 20 year anniversary of sobriety. You can do this but you can’t do it alone no, you can’t beat this one alone. You need the power of the group a sponsor. If you don’t have a sponsor get one I’ll be your sponsor until you pick one up, but why don’t you start by liking yourself first and then grow into loving yourself because you’re worth it I believe it and so should you
Pete
In my experience I’ve learned we have to get use to our own company, I had to learn to be by myself and be okay with it, substances, people places and things don’t fix us, we fix us. I had to have an open mind and be able to do things on my own without relying on substances, reaching out to others when we feel like this is important. Thanks for having the strength to share this 
a problem shared is a problem cut in half 
I understand
May I suggest the Bible just listen or read ur choice but it holds the answers u chose
It’s hard giving everything and everyone up. That’s where meetings and people help. That’s what saved me. It took a lot walk in a room and introduce myself but once I did and met people after and got some numbers I felt better. The phone still weighs 2 tons sometimes but it does get lighter and we can’t do this alone. Reach out
I get it tough one, for me I go to god