Being sober and having the worst break up ever making

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#1

Being sober and having the worst break up ever making me feel like I should be using or it can help me but it's not going to trying to keep the right mind for me but it's so hard when you're by yourself .depression has a lot to do with it but it's all in my head I think I don't know I'm going crazy

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#2

First hit your knees tell God. Help I’m lost. Don’t forget to eat. Be proud you asked for help. You’re going to be great remember people fire them selfs from us. Hugs

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#3

You know I read that earlier thank you I need God to help me find myself again I'm so lost🥺

#4

Rmbr how long it took to get where you are now. You deserve the best and keep pushing forward. You are worth it​:point_up:aldo when you wake up things will still be the same but you will be in a more weaker state of mind..hang in there. It's better to have no company than bad company​:clap::100::pray:

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#5

I have days I’m on my knees walking. Keep on reaching out

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#6

Your right it hurts but each day gets a tiny bit better sum days like today the worst meth is the worst .

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#7

I’ve been where your at. It is definitely one of the hardest things to go though. Being single is not that bad. So much freedom to work on myself. This is real self love

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#8

Pray

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#10

My head is my prison

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#11

I'm right beside you on that I left 10 yrs relationship its hard . I'm here to chat if u need to vent chat someone to just sit and listen.

#12

I agree reach out and talk to someone about it. I'm 65 I've been through it three times, and the last song I went through it's over and here I am and that's 15 years ago. I know it hurts it's like being addicted to that person and you're giving it up so of course you're going to feel like using. But don't is that person that broke up with you is still in their thing, and your thing is to stay sober get through this see the light at the end of the tunnel get on your knees pray to God for help cry for help get to a meeting open up to the women and explain to them what happened and while you're sitting there listening to their stories about what they went through because they're all still here just like me and you're still here but your heart's hurt. When he gives up an addiction our hearts hurt and then addiction could be anything alcohol drugs food a person anything. I hope you have a wonderful night's sleep I'll say a prayer good night your friend always Margie

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#13

Dominique... We've all gone through a break up.
I remember one which was by far the hardest. We had been serious since I was 9 years old. We were serious for 16 years. Sadly it was a toxic relationship more of a love hate relationship. Then finally I had enough. I threw her and her 23 sisters out of my house. Everyone thought I was crazy by throwing her out. Champagne and I were over. A bittersweet ending to a toxic relationship yet a breakup I celebrate every Christmas day and have been since 1988.
You may not see it however as time goes on you'll realize that this was the right decision.
Listen to what Lakota Bear, Tina C, Pamela, Kolya, Diana Carriere and Margie Cateron say they speak experience.