6 months. That’s how long it took me. Prior to 6 months I was an operationally better human being; but I was anxious, overwhelmed, socially crippled.
Prior to hitting 6 months I focused on what I could control:
- my diet
- exercise for endorphins
- rebuilding close relationships (a text or call go a long way)
- going to work/school
- thinking about what I was avoiding, when I felt the pull of ‘oblivion’
After 6 months
- creating (hobbies, self care routines, goals)
- fostering new relationships
- reframing the things I was avoiding
- enjoying a quiet mind space
- plus school/work, close relationships, showering & getting dressed
It gets SO much better. Hold on. Reach out to others who understand.
I’m here for anyone who wants/needs to chat.
So much love for the sober community. You guys are the reason I have been able to maintain my sobriety.
The opposite of addiction is connection