Birthday

Recovery
#1

Hi peeps. My son’s birthday today. Still haven’t told him of my rehab and AA program. I know he will notice when I don’t drink and a birthday celebration. I guess I’ll come clean with him when that opportunity presents itself. Still struggling on this topic with my kids 🥹

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#2

Anonymity is key. Those around us will see the change. No need at all to announce it.
Keep up the good work.

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#3

For me when it comes to immediate family honestly is the best. Just because you don’t drink at a party doesn’t show anything. I did that but then went home and drank. Now my husband and daughter both know and rebuilding their trust. Take what you want leave the rest

#4

Thanks Nancy. I always appreciate you input. :heart:. My son has never seen me Not drink at a restaurant dinner celebration. I’m going to see how it feels in the moment

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#5

I really want them to know. Because I’m serious. Never done this before. First rehab first time working AA

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#6

Be honest especially with them. Just them no one else’s business but your kids should know. My opinion.

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#7

Maybe just say you're on a diet and later in your sober journey you tell them when you feel comfortable? Just a suggestion.

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#8

Wonderful good luck.

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#9

Thanks. Truth is I want him to ask. What I don’t want is to make his birthday about me. Mom and more drama is what he doesn’t need. If it feels right I’d like to tell him everything or maybe just a little to start.

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#10

Thank you Jodi :slightly_smiling_face:

#11

It’s ODAAT. The truth is your not drinking that day. You are making the choice not to drink on his birthday. You can say you notice that you feel better when you don’t drink. If they ask lots of questions, just remind them that your taking day by day, and for today I’m choosing not to drink.

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#12

I think they'll appreciate you loving them and being present, whether you discuss your recovery steps or not. Nice job mom!

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#13

Happy birthday

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