Boundaries

Recovery
#1

Boundaries....my biggest downfall!
I'm still working on saying no when I need to and yes when I should...sigh...progress not perfection right? Bout to get tight with my sober peeps!! :blush:

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#2

Yes! Progress not perfection. The fact that you are aware and recognize any of this is a huge deal Sandy. Give yourself a ton of credit. Boundaries are difficult if you werenā€™t raised to have healthy ones or just havenā€™t had them. Keep working on it and do what is best for you. :heart:

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#3

Thanks Girl! I appreciate that!
Funny...thatscwhat I always tell everyone! "Give yourself credit!" I needed that reminder! :hugs:

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#4

My sponsorā€™s favorite saying:
No is a complete answer.:wink::grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:

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#5

It really is!! I actually did this tonight! And it felt friggin fantastic!!

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#6

Without any details I hear you and completely agree. Donā€™t think of it as a weakness you just need practice.

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#7

Thx Dave :hugs:

#8

You donā€™t have to give a yes or no immediately! ā€œThanks for thinking of me! Let me look at my calendar and I will get back to you by (time/date).ā€ Sleep on it :slight_smile: