Why are they so difficult to set? For me, at least. Especially when it comes to family and the constant negativety and drama. In particular, my stepmother and her guilt trips. Ugh, I feel like there is no way to do it without hurting her..yikes.
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Sometimes you need to hurt their feelings unfortunately. Your sobriety should be number 1. And those boundaries are key to that! Nobody should be allowed to have you question it. Definitely try talking to her and explain your feelings on it. Remember the hard make us that much more grateful when we get through it.
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Good advice Tim, thank you.
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Very well written and I love the insight. Thank you for this post. It helps a lot and will definitely take your advice and try to practice this!