What's something you're working on to become a better person rather it's directly for you or others?
My self-confident has not been good. I think it's related to becoming a widow who is now a single mother. It just blindsided me.
So I am going to focus on complimenting myself.
His plan not mine
I think, when it boils down to it, I'm working on becoming enough for ME.
Trying to see myself through a more gentle "lens" rather than the hateful one I used almost all of my life before now, is a good thing, but it's a challenge. Trying to treat myself as I would a beloved friend or one of my children, is my aim.
I never had a good role model as a father, nor did I have a good role model as a mother.
But through the fellowship and working the 12 steps I became an amazing mother and father to two amazing children and I am not the man my father was, nor did I mother my kids, the way, my mother, mother, me I am truly grateful
This! I need to do this. I for sure don't extend myself the same grace. I'm working on it.
Yes to breaking generational curses! 
One day at a time. I’m proud of you.
Thanks so much, Troy! I appreciate you!
That sounds nigh impossible to me! How are you going about this?! I need some direction.
My pleasure what we can’t do on our own… We can do together!!!
It started for me with First, getting honest, fully honest with someone else. And through that I started building trust, I started building a foundation. I started dumping all that pain I had inside food working the steps once I did that I got a firm foundation.. I started helping with the sick and suffering and sharing my experience strength and hope and helping them recover
That's brilliant, Troy. Thank you for this beauty.
Well Josh, just like with everything, I have better days and worse days.
It's going better than I expected though. I still have a couple of main areas of struggle with this. However, I like who I am today. That's something that I could never say before.
I'm here if you want to discuss strategies. Hugs to you.
Just like everything we've do today, Amanda, it's one day at a time, just for today 
I am trying to find inner peace. I've had a lot of anger and loss that's jaded my outlook. My goal is to never act like a 6 year old having a tantrum again.
Good luck on your journey!
Like you Amanda I would say confidence. I went through a divorce after a 17 year relationship and being single after so long is just so different. It broke my confidence mentally and physically.
My pleasure. Have a wonderful day.