Community question please advise for someone who has a couple of years.is it a good idea to start talking with an ex who u use to drink with who now has 30 days .keep in mind she has had my back through some stuff thats rare.
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It’s definitely a personal choice, but I’d just say to move slow and protect the sobriety you’ve built. Thirty days is a great start, but early recovery is super fragile. You’ve got more time under your belt, and sometimes even with the best intentions, old patterns can creep back fast.
If she’s really working on herself, showing you she’s committed, and not just saying it, that’s a good sign. But I’d keep boundaries clear and stay rooted in your recovery first. You’ve come too far to risk it on a maybe. Just my thoughts, big respect either way.