Currently on the bathroom floor, trying to make myself throw up. Ex messaged me today saying I was too financially & emotionally unavailable. Tell me something I don’t know. Reminds me of a few months ago when I was puking my guts out, while trying to take care of my mom. I just can’t do this.
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You don’t need anyone’s approval in life. Make the right decisions for you and it’ll fall into place. You can do this, we are hardest on ourselves but we can also go easier on ourselves too. Make it through today, whether it’s a minute at a time or an hour. You’ve got this!
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Everything has a beginning, your ex is a fonzanoon to expect the end result at the beginning of the journey. You can do it! I believe you can!
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I know it’s hard, but don’t let him manipulate how you feel. We often let others cause negativity around us. Especially when we struggle with this type of disease of addiction. Keep your head up, focus on you and let it all fall into play how it’s supposed to happen for you!
One day, one problem at a time! He’s your ex for a reason. You will find in sobriety that you will form so many more, healthier, happier relationships. Posting your struggle on here is a great start! You don’t have to face life and it’s challenges alone anymore! We are all here for you because we’ve all been there. I believe in you!
How exactly is someone “financially” unavailable? Unless you’re married your money is your business, as far as I’m concerned. Just a weird thing to say. Also, I echo what everyone else says here, reach out if you need us!
Haven't heard from you in a while, hope you are ok