Dating idk how to do this.
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It's hard I'm sure. One day at a time focusing on yourself and service
I hear ya! I didn’t realize how much dating relied on drinking and drugs until I started living sober. My advice is don’t waste your time on the mainstream dating apps. 90% use some substance and advertise it in 60% of their profile. The advice I’ve been given was to not date for the first year of your sobriety, but I’ve heard differing objections. Most advise this to keep you focused on you and potentially avoid a relapse.
Most importantly, you don’t need another person to be happy and you shouldn’t go seeking a relationship until you’re happy with yourself. Good luck, my dude!
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Thanks?
Seriously? Did you drink him fun?
When you figure it out, let me know.
That's really cool. Myself, my goal is a year sober first. I hear there is a dating countdown clock which would be a hilarious talking point.
I used to be a bartender, I’ve never heard “it’s 364 days sober”
Ask her out
Is there not a dating app for sober folks?
Dating is really hard sober. I feel nervous and self conscious. Before, a few shots and I could open up.