You need time for yourself first.. you will find that person just give a time.
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I heard long ago from an old school AA, who was also my very first small group counselor in my first rehab, that there were three things that was suggested you stay away from in the first year.
- Buying a new home
- Starting back to College
- Getting into a relationship/married
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You hear often times in the rooms it’s one year but in reality it’s you need to work the steps then you can start working on having a personal relationship. So my advice get to work on your steps ASAP lol. 
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Excellent.
That seems to be the successful way. As long as our sobriety comes first, most other things seem to work themselves out.
Glad to hear you made 11 months. 
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