Day 0 need help!

Hi my name is Jessica i am new to the hole getting sober part and ive had several cycles but ive investigated alot of apps communities and programs in the last week that i think i have found the one! I need a sponser is anyone willing to take me on this journey of a successful recovery!

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Hey Jessica, I just saw your post. I’m sober 15 years and sponsor men & women. I friend requested you so you can text me in private or here if you prefer.
At the least, I can help you figure out next steps.
Either way I wish you to be free from all mind altering substances and to be truly happy :blush:

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Welcome to tha community

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You could do it my dear beloved :heart: stay strong

Get a female sponsor. Men stick with the men, women stick with the women. Everyone knows that, cmon guys

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Welcome

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Jessica welcome to the Loosid Community. We are here/hear for you. Download the AA app find a meeting(s) in your area and start attending them. You'll definitely find a sponsor there. I wish you luck. You can do this my friend.

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Thank you for that I will message u

Recovery and nither Male of Female. It's a way to recover and find people that you need to surround yourselves with. You do need to be careful with who. You select as a sponsor whether it's male or female. You need to have identity with them. You need to have a personality care to trade with them. And you need to know that your higher power sent you to them. All things work together for the good for those who are called and God has called to recovery. So you can sip through the messages and find the right person for you. Or you can stay in your addiction and be not happy. And not work the steps and not go further. Everyone is not a sexual predator. There are a lot of men and women out here.Who sponsor men and women some older than us in our recovery who have a lot of wisdom so don't let your emotions lead you right out of your recovery again.Thinking that you're alone .Because you can't find a sponsor sponsors can be found if you seek you should find if you knock.It shall be open until you

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Why so negative and demeaning? # of men vs women? Who cares. We’re all here to help and support one another and there are a lot of us here. Maybe this isn’t for you but you can keep your ugly comments to yourself. I wish you the best

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Hi Jessica! Glad you joined us.

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The best way to find a sponsor is by going to an AA/NA meeting and finding someone that you resonate with. Go early, and in the meeting share and introduce yourself as a newcomer that is looking for a female sponsor. After the meeting, stick around and someone will talk to you.

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Are you hanging in there, Jessica?

Hey Jessica if need anyone to talk to I am a good listener...

There's a reason why men stick with men and women stick with women. Don't do it Jessica, there's lots of women here and all over the world that would be willing to help you.

Dirt bags here!! I couldn't agree more!

Don't do it...please don't do it

There are many reasons why men stick with men and women with women.

Who was demeaning? If anything, the men here are either trying to protect her from predators here, or men trying to convince her to be her sponsor. There are a lot of sick people here, and men should stick with men and women with women...end of story