Day One. Again

Struggling Help
#22

Thank you. That means a lot to me to hear. I often forget I was put on this earth for a reason. I appreciate the reminder :blush:

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#23

Amen to that!! I know that's right! Thanks, Pamela :pray:

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#24

I'm so glad you shared. I know that what you're going through is so tough.

We're so used to beating ourselves up, but you took the time to tell us how you're doing. That means you have hope. Maybe take that little glimmer of hope and just concentrate on it like it's a precious seed in your heart. It can grow if you believe it can. You can get well. :pray: Just believe in yourself.

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#25

Awwww, thank you so much :blush: I'm going to try to think about my little precious seed that glimmers in my heart all week. Thank you :hugs:

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#26

I've started over so many times. Even after almost dying from alcohol, I had to start over. And over again. I realize relapse doesn't have to be part of recovery. But it just is. Glad you're back. And reaching out. It's the isolation that's so dangerous for us. Keep connecting when you can. You got this.

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#27

Hey don’t kick yourself for too long. We all fall, it’s about picking ourselves up & learning from our mistakes. And stepping forward. Stay closer to your sober peeps, make more sober friends and dig deeper on your steps w your sponsor. It’ll all work out if you want it to.
Glad you’re backđŸ« 

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#28

No matter how much time anybody has myself included we wake up everyday and it’s Day 1. Cuz all we ever have is today.

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#29

Thanks so much, Drew. I always need that reminder. Honestly, one of my favorite things I've learned in the ups and downs of my sober journey is to truly appreciate each day. It's much easier and way more fulfilling when I'm not participating in active alcoholism, but yes, each day, one day at a time. It's all we got... :woman_shrugging::blush:

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#30

Drew you’re right :wave:

#31

The good news about losing your job if you do, is that you probably would not have been looking for the new and better job you're going to get !

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#32

Hey! Glad you made it back :heart:

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#33

Awwww, thanks Michael! I've been trying to tell myself the same thing and trying my best to put my faith in God and truly believe that he would never leave me; but that if there are 'one set of footprints in the sand, it was then that he was carrying me'... :pray:

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#34

Thanks, Bianca! I really appreciate that! Gonna start this week out on Day 4 and go from there - one day at a time... :pray:

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#35

You got this! If you’ve come here again it’s for the same reason you have came every other time, to get sober. Getting sober is only part of it, staying sober is a different part. Each time I have slipped I’ve made sure to come back stronger and more equipped. How will you come back stronger ? Will you restart a program? Will you develop a routine ? More physical activity? More mindfulness? Attend more meetings, learn the coping skills, speak with a counselor?

You can do this! Also have someone who is sober who you can speak to when you’re struggling if you don’t have a sponsor.

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#36

Great suggestions! I've been thinking about these very things alllllllllllll weekend. Thanks, Bianca!!

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#37

You got this Debbie, be strong

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#38

Welcome back!

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#39

Thank you! It's so good to be back!! :pray:

#40

Well, that makes sense that it would be harder this time around. At first, for sure. I am just happy that you are back on track as you too should be. Progress not perfection right? That is all we are after and sometimes our progress can be so consistent that we lose sight of this. Doesn't make it any less fact however.

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#41

Progress not perfection is one of my all-time favorite sayings in AA. The first time I heard it, it planted my feet on the ground. I just need to REMEMBER it in times of struggle. I really appreciate your feedback and support. It means a lot... thank you for taking the time :pray:

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