Dealing with my children’s dad in any way shape or form brings so much negativity into my heart. I need to heal this. I thought I had but then I guess I unforgave him again. Fml
U unforgave him? So you forgave him then took it back? Lol. Lost me there.
Those relationship triggers happen to many of us. You do need to heal, but it can’t be forced. This too shall pass
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Yeah. I mean every time he opens his mouth it takes me right back to when he put his hands on me. I haven’t dealt with the scars from this yet
I had forgot about this app. I just downloaded it. It’s not giving me notifications. I gotta change my settings
Sorry to hear that. Sounds toxic. Hope you staying clear of that situation and keeping sobriety front and center
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I wish I could. Regardless of the no contact order, family court ordered visitation and electronic communication is acceptable so long as it’s in regards to our children. He manipulates the heck out of the order. Ie “I think the kids like a healthy mother you should lose some weight? Maybe work out” I’m ready to blow. Absolutely sober, but some days I feel like drinking his ignorance away