Does anybody have suggestions for how to make it through, absolutely several bad events, happening at the same time?? I’m terrible at it, and have not done so well, when shit hits the fan
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A month or ao
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Vivian
Well, we can be friends, on Loosid, only in support for drug abuse, that’s as far as I go, period. Just like everyone else, on this app. That’s what it’s for, it would be very easy, for someone to abuse the site, and in my book, that really sucks for everyone on this app
Yep
How is it going?
Hey, Vivian. Take it 1 day at a time. Allow yourself to feel freely. Breathe. Cry. Do what it takes to get your mental and emotional health where it needs to be.
How have you been since you posted this?
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About a month ago
I am going through a lot of bad shit at the same time too. I got kicked of my house, now going thru divorce, I don’t get to spend very much time with my kids, my truck is broken down, I almost died two weeks ago from pancreatitis and spent a week in the hospital, and I don’t have a place to live. But I am sober and will be 24 days tomorrow. You can do it. One second, or minute or day at a time. Find a meeting find someone to talk to hell find a paper and pen and write down your feelings, thoughts, emotions. If I can do this and all these people on here can do it. So can you!
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That’s great, you are going through hell. But what, inspiration, you are. You are totally incredible. Even in the worst of times, you are hanging in there!! Thanks, for the support!! Hope things, gradually improve, for you!! No one, should ever have to through, so much at the same time!!
Yea it sucks and there are moments where it’s difficult. But I think about what got me to this point. Then I concentrate on where I want to be. I won’t get my marriage back and I won’t be able to take back the pain I caused. But i can take my life back and be there for my kids and family and friend and even my ex. But you have to hold yourself accountable and be there for yourself first.
That’s exactly it. I have 3 kids, and I am very close, to all three of them. I’m even friends with my ex. I have so much support, and am very grateful. Thanks, for the great advice!! That’s great that you are making your family, your priority!!
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Hope things start working out 4 you nothing like being homeless and trying 2 stay sober we are all worthy of recovery just remember that
Well I have a hotel at the moment so there’s that. Lol
In active addiction this is when I’d spiral really bad. In my recovery I’ve set up better coping tools. I just keep focusing on my recovery and taking it one day at a time. Hard shit still happens but it doesn’t seem as bad anymore because I’m dealing with it in a healthy way. You just have to find the tools that work for you. Hope it starts to get better for you!
Your priority should be you staying clean.going to n a meetings.