I’m finally starting step 4 in the AA program. A  moral inventory of my self, not going to lie I’m kinda nervous because it’s really going to make me take a look at my self. 
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It's going to be okay man. You can't start to truly accept and love yourself until you take a good long look at all of you. Good and bad, but remember that more people probably see the good in you than you do.
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If I am not the problem there is no solution
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Just remember what you’re working towards! It will be hard but it will also be extremely good for you! Much love 
I know you can do it!
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Step 4 isn’t an “Arron is a dbag list” it is just looking at areas we can better ourselves. Be honest and you will be surprised at how much better you will feel when it is done. Keep an open mind to the changes and advice given from your sponsor and you will do good.
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It’s what going to make you a better Man . Even if you weren’t getting sober, you’d still have to do that as a man anyway but I definitely understand, it’s how you improve and learn from mistakes and past decisions so that you can live a better life
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I believe that this is where the real magic happens brother! You got this! 
If we are thorough and honest in this step, then sharing it with another human being (sponsor, trusted friend ect.) in the 5th step, the freedom, the relief & the piece of mind that follows will be more than anything we could have ever imagined.
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Yeah I’m working on this step now and I have a really good sponsor. I’m taking my time so I can be thorough
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Thanks brother I’m trying to be the best version of me as possible these days
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Heck Yeah man, no worse pain than regret
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