So im going to a wedding at the end of july and im getting worried casuse with weddings there is usually alcohol involved. The thing thats this may be my onlt time to visit alaska toand to see an area of the states ive always wanted to see. Im caught in between just i wanna go to see alaska and yet i feel like ill have one impulsive moment and lash out into drinking. Please share your thoughts i have until eary july to figure this out.
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Maybe the best is to just go to the ceremony only, but if not possible then pray and God will give you the strength to enjoy and stay good🙏🏽
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Rachel, I have been in similar situations many times. The smartest thing I did was double down on my AA meetings and had several AA brothers & sisters I kept in constant contact while in the situation. I shared all my good and bad thoughts & feelings with my AA’s.
We support each other through these times. I just friend requested you.
I’m here if you want to talk or have any questions
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Personally; I wouldn't go alone, I would find or bring a sober buddy or someone who supports my recovery, next I wouldn't depend on anyone for a ride so I could leave when I wanted and wouldn't be trapped in an uncomfortable situation, I would also be search where the meetings were in the area so I know where to go and when for support, while at the function I would make sure that I had a non-alcoholic beverage in my hand at all times. So if anybody offered me something to drink I'd say I've already got something thanks. I'm also not shy about letting my friends and family know that I'm an addict in recovering so that they can offer support, but that is a personal call. The most important thing is having an escape plan and people who support you with your life choices and remembering that recovery is the priority. Most likely. If I were going up to a place that I hadn't been before and I was going to go to I would plan some activities to look forward to doing. Maybe have them arranged around rehearsal dinner and ceremony so I've got somewhere to be instead of hanging out for an after party. I hope this helps. If anything bring it to a meeting. I'm sure you could get more advice there.
Hi Rachel, for myself sobriety is paramount - there is nothing more important than that - I do not attend events that will have alcohol - those who know me understand this are very accepting of my boundaries
Rachel, here are my thoughts. See the sights. Make sure you have a way out in case things get dicey. If there is a thought of drinking that is overwhelming then think it through. If you drank what would happen. Frankly, it is not worth it. The fact that you are asking for help/opinions about the best options shows that you care about yourself and your sobriety. Pray, Pray Pray. Also the thoughts of the other people who have responded is awesome. Keep the faith. God Bless