Whenever I get clean and sober I feel like I have no one like I don't have any friends 
I've been a loser my whole life and that becomes even more evident when I quit drinking and using
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The first week is tough stay strong!
Youre like me, clean and sober and that definitely doesn't make either of us losers. To still be out doing those things we were doing would make us more of a loser than us being sober.
Sugar Jack is cool as h*** in my book 
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That's your addict self talking be gracious appreciate each day go to meetings make friends stay humble
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You are not! a loser You have made THE BEST DECISION OF YOUR LIFE!!!! Plz get to a meeting
Sugar, you’re a winner! You are loved and cherished 
. Thank you for sharing. This reminds me of how I felt. I’m here to tell you that those negative thoughts and feelings are false. They’re created by your ego to keep you in addiction. Please don’t pay attention to your addict ego. Your ego is not your amigo!!! Please go to AA/NA/CA meetings daily, get sponsored and do the 12 steps thoroughly. These ACTIONS freed me.
I’m here if you want to talk.
This is how I feel! I have 0 sober friends! They all drink and that’s how we socialize! I would love to be your friend!
I don't know how old you are but it took me 34yrs to realize that I was a loser being a alcoholic and addict. I don't have friends like that either but I enjoy life now especially surrendering and devoting my life to my higher power 
Find something you enjoy and devote yourself to doing it.
You’re not a loser! Stay strong and maybe try to practice some self-care. The more positive things you look for the better your day will be!
By no means are you a loser , you should be very proud of yourself, not everyone can get clean . Find a Church and you will always have a new family and friends. I hope you find peace and please don’t be discouraged or put yourself down. Everyday clean and sober is better than any day we were living messed up. They weren’t even real friends . One day at a time .
If you stick with it throughout all the self doubt you will have a fellowship you crave. The people in the rooms will become true friends as we all understand. Push through it and the rewards of sobriety and the promises will far exceed any expectations.
Let's do this together I need friends do you