First heart pull and while I’m not super active in traditional recovery, officially understand a couple things about dry drunks and always stick on the fallacy of all people who are non drinkers being good.
But then I do remember my faults, and I didn’t berate or belittle myself and maybe there is something about being 235 days sober.
And I respect the little teenager in my who did this all without alcohol the first time! You were a rockstar. And glad I don’t need to antagonize or be harshto an ex to just move forward.
Bittersweet, but truly grateful to see just a natural understanding.