So, this long weekend, we attended a memorial event for a dear friend that passed on the morning of this summer's solstice. Of course, there were alcoholic beverages (i had my sparkling water) and a beautiful toast/story telling session with his favorite vodka drink (not for me). At first, I did have some degree of FoMo (fear of missing out). Now I know, that the sober of us are the one who DIDN'T miss out! Without imbibing, we are the ones who remember the whole night, and actually didn't miss anything.