Friend thinks they know better

Recovery
#1

So yesterday i decided to post my 45 days progress on facebook with a milestone post.
I took a swig of a whiteclaw on St Pattys when i invited my closest girlfriends to the club to see my husbands’ band on St Patty’s.
The girlfriend whose drink it was, texted me today that I’m lying about my sober date.

I’m maintaining a clear mind and heart (same as that moment I took a sip of the WC) but I’m really hurt that she would let this come between us.

I see that her reaction is more about her than it will ever be about me. But I’m still here on the fence, wondering if this is actually a serious indiscretion on her part and something I shouldnt take lightly from a person who I spend time and energy with?

Ultimately its my decision but I’m wondering if Loosid could come through with insight for me.

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#3

Im sorry your friend is so insecure they project their issues into you.

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#4

Woahhh after some back and forth, i asked if we could agree to disagree and she said no and i blocked her before she could go further :sweat_smile:

#5

I think it’s wack af and I would say she’s tryna hold you accountable but I don’t believe so. Furthermore it’s your sobriety & your milestone she needs to get a grip.

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#6

:laughing: and thats being nice

#7

I have a different perspective on this. I feel that she has good intentions especially since she texted you personally instead of commenting on your post and calling you out publicly.
If I took a swig of any alcohol my sponsor would absolutely tell me to start over. It’s your choice but for me I feel I wouldn’t be living in integrity for myself. Not saying that’s what your doing but a drink is a drink no matter how little.

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#8

I hear you. Thanks for commenting.

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