Frustration confusion and disappointments

Nothing frustrate me more than someone lying to me for no reason. I am starting to really feel like I have to detached myself from someone I was just on the phone with. Which we talk every night but due to us talking every day or night I see a pattern of them being someone on the phone that they not in person. Which is so frustrating cause they becoming very sloppy with it now so I see through the lies. The confusion is why is this person going through these lengths of behaviors with me. And because every day I'm seeing it more clearly I questions this myself about the person involvement with my pass that I swear won't stay in the dam pass. And the disappointment is I really like and care for this person deeply. And I did believe in the process of us growing together so strongly and positively. But action speak louder than words. So it very disappointing to know and see the action is not matching they words at all. It make me think strongly on separate from this person to protect my mind body and spirit frfr. Things happen for reason and I really need to know WHY.

  1. WHY ME?
  2. WHY THE PAST WONT LEAve me alone?
    3.Why or even better WHEN will it end?

Can I live and breathe?!!!