Getting sober and trying to like myself enough to realize

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Getting sober and trying to like myself enough to realize that I might possibly matter to someone

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#3

If you do a small act of kindness everyday for someone else (hold a door open, compliment someone for something, let a person know how much you appreciate them), you will make a difference not only in their life but in yours as well. I agree that you must matter to yourself and get sober for yourself.

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#4

We all matter , one day at a time , it gets better , humility

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#5

Realizing you matter is super important for ❤️‍🩹! You got this

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#6

Well you matter to us! Keep your head up, and keep going!

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#7

Well said!!

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#8

I know I really want to find my soul maté someday sober clean soulmate preferably but I really want to be emotionally stable…

#9

Being alone with yourself is a prerequisite for learning to be with someone else fully. I resonate with your loneliness and I hope you don’t mistake wanting to be with someone just to save you from feeling loneliness for love and find out later it isn’t because I know I am vulnerable to that since my wife died. It’s been 15 months and I know I am not out of the woods yet. Time takes time.:heart_decoration::love_you_gesture::sun_with_face::rose:

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#10

You always matter!:love_you_gesture::rose::sun_with_face::pray::heart_decoration:

#11

You’re not alone!! You have a sober supportive family here!!

#12

i hope you can learn to love yourself. one day at a time you’ll grow. take it easy on yourself. write down positive affirmations and tape them up on your mirror. ex: I am good enough. I am beautiful inside and out. I am intelligent. I am curious and creative.
Be kind to yourself. You deserve sobriety and you deserve love. This is just the beginning :black_heart: Stay strong