Going to family event with my ex wife an all her family, we share kids together . It kills me to be in these situations to see the damage I have done from my drinking over the course of our marriage. I have fought to put things back together but it too far gone . I have a very hard time letting stuff go to god . I feel the regret of my kids living in separate houses going back and forth and of course my wife so mad at me that she is able to date someone within a month of moving out … I know drinking is not the answer but it sure would help me forget
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Anthony you and I know drinking will make it worse. You need time to heal and that time is better spent sober so you can think clearly. Hang in there and I’m going thru a similar situation.
The Fact that you can sit there and be vulnerable and be able to go into the situation with your Head held up high speaks volumes of your character. So just know that it wasn’t the right relationship for you and in time you know you’ll find someone that is perfect for you
I know it’s hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel but I promise there is one. My drinking lead to the end of my marriage too but a few years passed and my children were actually grateful that their parents were divorced. No more destruction and ugliness. Now 7 years later we are all happier and coparent our kids well and our friends. Your kids deserve to see happy parents. Focus on you and learn from your mistakes.
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