I have been taking stock since i got back from recovery of all the people in my life lately. Mostly because i dont see any of them . I realized im not ok with that and the ones i do see just want something or me to work , never just for friendship. I looked at it, even partying i was always there to help, give a hand or what ever. Since i been back its pretty quit around my place. Its all the people i didnt party with thats been a let down . So today i started to clean house a bit and took control of the fair weather needy friends and metioned that to a few. I been sober well over a year and im sick of the judgement and attude sometimes. It gets old. And it felt good to tell a couple of people that talk lcrap behind my back to f off and dont come back
I hear ya! Do you got to any meetings because those rooms are filled w people who actually care about u and your recovery. They will just listen if that's what you need...w no judgement because they've been there themselves...and if you need a hand they are more than willing to help you w no expectations and nothing in return! It's what keeps us sober! They are some wonderful people!
Ben, good for you! I had to let all my party friends go. I made real friends in AA/NA & CA. People that are givers like me. People that understand me. We got each other’s backs 
I’m here for you bro
Ya i do when I can I still do counciling to some days the frustrations get to me . Just tired of people thinking im stupid or dont know when try talking down at me. Makes me want to slap them . Meetings here are once a week so I try to do online if im working but thats not the same