Good morning family, I've gotten myself into a relationship and I'm gonna have 9 months clean on the 28th of April. Things are not going as well as I thought, she's looking for someone to take care of her and I'm looking for someone to be independent and self maintained. She makes me feel like I have to spend money on her to be with her and I'm not on that, any suggestions?
It seems like you both want a fundamentally different thing out of the relationship which makes you incompatible. Neither of you will change, so perhaps you should go your separate ways.
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Have you ţried telling her how you feel and what you are looking for in a relationship?
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Cut and run. Find what you need. It’s like a bandaid. Rip it off fast.
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