I'm very grateful to have discernment when it comes to that one little word that has always tripped me up the word no. Whether big codependent or counter-codependent is actually irrelevant to me today. I have recognized I have to wait while church is carefully and not jeopardize the most important thing in my life and that is my sobriety. Have a drama free existence thank you Lord. Do not let anyone interfere nor should I take advantage of your kindness and compassion. Because the unsavory sorts will , without a second moments hesitation. My birthday is February 8th I'll be the big 65. I truly thank my higher power, my Lord Jesus Christ. I thank you for all of these years to learn and to grow to discern what is right and what is wrong. And to be able to say no to my ex fiance who got married two years ago but his wife burned their house down and a homeless shelter is beneath him and expected me to allow him to occupy room in my head again and in my bed. Thank you for reading this learn to say no because it will jeopardize what you are working hard for trust me I dodged a bullet! Happy birthday to me
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