I can’t get comfortable unless I’m a little high (
) or drinking like a whole bottle of wine. Plus my libido is low. Suggestions?
Have you tried a hormone Dr?
Nope. I’ve never needed one and my levels of everything they usually test for are normal
I’ve even thought about asking for small amount of testosterone because I heard it makes women’s libidos skyrocket
I had the same problem and I reached out to a hormone Dr which I’m so glad I did. It wouldn’t hurt to get a free consultation to get their opinion.
Anything I did loaded/drinking I can now do sober. It’s just a matter of not letting fear and excuses run my life.
I suggest you get into the steps.
Yeah, what Matt says! Don’t know what the 12 Steps are? Go to a 12 Step meeting and raise your hand 
I was very nervous the first time. It was also with a new woman so that added to it. But it was fine. Great. Highly recommend.