Has anyone woman been able to switch back to sober intimacy?

I can’t get comfortable unless I’m a little high (:herb:) or drinking like a whole bottle of wine. Plus my libido is low. Suggestions?

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Have you tried a hormone Dr?

Nope. I’ve never needed one and my levels of everything they usually test for are normal

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I’ve even thought about asking for small amount of testosterone because I heard it makes women’s libidos skyrocket

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I had the same problem and I reached out to a hormone Dr which I’m so glad I did. It wouldn’t hurt to get a free consultation to get their opinion.

Anything I did loaded/drinking I can now do sober. It’s just a matter of not letting fear and excuses run my life.
I suggest you get into the steps.

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Yeah, what Matt says! Don’t know what the 12 Steps are? Go to a 12 Step meeting and raise your hand :raising_hand_woman:

I was very nervous the first time. It was also with a new woman so that added to it. But it was fine. Great. Highly recommend.