Havent been on here in a bit , but i was/ still am dealing with my signing other, whom has an alcohol problem . Things havent changed . It’s difficult & i dont know what to do bc its getting to where everyone dislikes him .
Lena, you cannot change or get sober for your significant other. If their behavior is negatively affecting your life, and it seems to be, for a while now, then you need to change something. You will never be able to force your significant other into recovery, and you cannot do the work for them. They have to be willing to take the steps and actions to pursue recovery.
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Move on.it is there problem .they need to get there own help.
Easier said than done when youve been together for many years with 2 little ones ..