Haven't seen my son since the 3rd. I've hired an

Haven't seen my son since the 3rd. I've hired an attorney and served my ex for the games she's playing. He's not biologically mine so I probably have a nice little fight on my hands but I've been in his life his entire life and can't understand why someone would yank the rug out from under a child like that. Been sober eight years. Nothing but love between he and I, but because she's got a narcissist personality disorder and I have no rights - I'm at the mercy of this charade. Yall send out all the good vibes that order is restored and my buddy gets to come home soon. I hate it for me. But I hate it far worse for him. All he wants is his daddy in his life and how a mother would stand in the way of that baffles me. Karma. She's real and she comes for all of us eventually. Good or bad.

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I’m sorry you have to go through this. Custody battles are not fun. It sounds like you have the clear mind to tackle this and you aren’t shying away from what your son needs. Feel free to message anytime - I went through quite the custody battle myself with my son as well.

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Sending good positive vibes your way! :dizzy: It's a shame you and your son have to go through this. Must be extremely painful for you both. I could never understand why people want to hurt their children and their ex partners. Tragic. Prayers to you both.

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I'm hoping this is a quick case in the courts. I've got seven years of social media as a witness to my involvement - despite what she may care to portray. And text messages of her openly acknowledging my status as his dad even a good daddy. While the law may say I don't have standing - shell have to explain to a judge why she's interfering with that relationship. As much as I'd hate to see it get all tangled and to that point, I'd relish seeing her have to answer to what she's done. Because at the end of the day, family courts care about what's best for kids and without any sort of meaningful concern of me being a bad dad or person, she'll be outed as just being a vengeful soul who will use kids as weapons if she needs to. Those are dangerous people as far as I'm concerned.

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Yes I agree. My ex is the same way. It is all about what is best for the child. I hope it’s quick for you too.

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I'm hanging in there! Bleeding but still breathing!

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So sorry you’re going through that. How any mother could do that is beyond me! Hang in there!